Hello 2021 and Happy New Year Sex to all

That's it 2020 is finally behind us !

Let's welcome it as it should be 2021 hoping this year will be better than the previous one ! I sincerely believe that the situation will not get better until this autumn alas.

To begin with I wish you all a very good health because in these difficult times it becomes more than ever the priority. Then of course love and money because the catastrophic situation of the economy leaves many people on the tile alas. But finally I wish you happiness above all, joy but also full of sex !

We have succeeded with Amantelilli has passed 2020 without too much scratch. Obviously the libertinism took a big hit and I think it will be the same for 2021. Not sure either that this year we can go to Cape Town and live as usual our libertine adventures. Nevertheless I think we will be able to meet some people, mainly duets I think as in 2020. For this year again the scoreboard will be active and may allow Amantelilli to have a beautiful gift in 2022 !

What to wish for our couple in 2021 Sex side ?

First of all the cut of the month has changed a little in the mindset as announced Amantelilli on twitter :

These aren't really D/s weeks, they're more wires conductors. Until this weekend included, it is my Man who proposes the games and the next fortnight (period of my ragnagnas), It's going to be me^^

— Amante Lilli 🔞 (@AmanteLilli) December 23, 2020

Before I was 15 his submissive days and during 15 days she was my sex toy. But actually to be honest Amantelilli is not at all submissive and so if I want a sexual action at a time that does not suit him it is a refusal or at best a small ralou when I propose the action. As a result I can no longer consider my 15-day period as my period of sexual domination over Amantelilli. So I have to for this year 2021 change my mindset on my period. Attention, Amantelilli once in action always likes to be bullied, insulted and make love in a hard way, it doesn't change and even evolves in the hardest. But outside of the action it is less and less “Docile”.

Then the meetings will once again be essentially a duo this year at least in the 9 first month and following the health situation. This is not what you prefer Amantelilli. It's true that a good Gangbang very hard or a good cinema X very creepy would be great and we're starting to miss it serious ! For my part my wife is free as air to do what she wants with whomever she wants when she wants. She may not even tell me until later if there has been an encounter with a man. Amantelilli even if you are married there is no sense of belonging about me. On the contrary, the more it belongs to other men or even to another man the happier I am. I won't be against the fact that it is a story with another man that is more than sex, a kind of little crush, friend-mour, a little crush on another man. I know that in 2020 we have had some great encounters and some single men have marked it. Then a little libertine friendship was born. If it were to go further I will not see any disadvantage on the contrary for the contrary.

That she meets without my presence is also something I would like. I also love it very much when she has relationships through what's app with her former lovers. I love their complicity and the fact that she shares things with them that she does not share with me. I'd really love for her to be addicted to one or two lovers, she's telling me about them, of his desires to make love with them, that she misses them and loves to feel their sex in her. In short you will understand, For me Amantelilli can behave as if she were single. I'll always be there for her no matter what my role is in our relationship..

For 2021 I wish we were more immersed in a sexual atmosphere. This is very very difficult during the week because we have sick schedules and unfortunately this makes us fall into the Dodo routine, Job, Ride, Food ! We are overflowing with demonstration of Love and Tenderness towards each other all the time whether it's the week when the weekend. And when the weekend arrives we finally take some time for sexual pleasures. I wish we could change that because sex is present in my head every day. Unfortunately, it's become a passion, especially by having the chance to share my life with Amantelilli which alone generates my fantasies. Indeed, I have 2 passions in my life. The first is my wife and the second is sex. As you know I am a candaulist and so even if I can find another woman desirable by her appearance or her sexual practices, it's hard for me, see impossible, to go with that other woman even though Amantelilli allows me to do that. I am therefore under the #8217 permanent control of’Amantelilli and sex. Amantelilli and sex are the very essences of my life, if I don't have these 2 elements I'm unhappy and I wither.

it is also for this reason that after very long hesitations, I still made a table of points 2021. A lot has changed in this picture. First of all, the number of challenges has decreased significantly. I went from 84 Challenges 2020 to 60 en 2021. Moreover, the very nature of the challenges has changed. I have completely excluded everything’Amantelilli doesn't like to do. I had left some challenges over the years but seeing that she never tried them, I decided to remove them for this year, there will be no improvement on these topics there.

I've removed all the topics about anal pleasure whether on Amantelilli or on me. Indeed Amantelilli doesn't like sodomy and doesn't want to try. As for using dildo belt on me, or plug, she does not like it because she finds that it is bi and therefore undermines the image she has of me alpha man. I may explain to him that the pain I feel during penetration is very violent (something she should understand because she feels the same way) and therefore that in addition to the humiliation of the situation (for me I feel it so) my physical maso side likes this feeling of destruction but not it blocks it. In the same frame of mind nothing is more humiliating to me than the forced bi in the cuckolding. I hate a man's sex because I find it really ugly (kudos girls i don't know how you do to find some beautiful sexes) and I am not at all attracted to men but this humiliation that I feel in this extreme practice for me is very strong and violent for my own love. Again, this practice is banned 2021 because it hurts how it feels Amantelilli For me.

The slightly over-focused D/S games have been removed from the scoreboard. Ban me from certain actions, receive remote orders, this kind of games even though these are easily winnable points, Amantelilli don't use these opportunities, it doesn't interest him much. And in the same way everything that relates to actions imposed on Amantelilli by me or his lovers were abducted because not at all compatible with his character.

In fact this year the table has been updated to match the reality of the facts, whether it's because of the health news, or to stick to what you like to do Amantelilli. This will make it easier for him to earn points without actually making an effort. There will be much less of a challenge, surpassing oneself than in previous years. I went back to the basics of what she likes ie the exhibition, flashing them and wearing sexy outfits. I even adapted this to his Achilles tendon problems by introducing the possibility of having a sexy outfit in public by wearing shoes other than stilettos ! I also created situations where doing sexual actions outdoors earned him points. It's something that’Amantelilli loves to do, have sexual activity outside the home. Regarding my submission to Amantelilli, it is therefore more masochistic than D/S. I offer her my body and she can destroy it in any way she wants, no real limits, use all the torture instruments on my whole body, from face to my feet. Since the maso side was revealing, I'm really psychologically ready to go very far in masochism.

As much as a candainist I don't feel like going with other women, as a maso I am ready to be offered by my wife if she wishes to other people, women or men. I keep working on my body to make it more pain-resistant, ready to be kicked, punches, slaps, torture of sex and breasts and why not suffer the bite of a real whip. Psychologically I am already ready to suffer the worst humiliations coming of course from my wife but also from anyone else. Sputum, hard words, degrading poses are for me situations that I already love.

I still left in the points table the Cuckolding with some notions of humiliations specific to this game. There too being under the orders of a Bull and my wife is something I really like. Nothing happened in 2020 on that side given the health events.

There is also the notion of devotion, psychological submission, control of my sexuality that can be found in the picture. Wearing a chastity cage is a key element of the control of my sex and therefore my belonging as a submissive, that dog, that under towards my Goddess Amantelilli. My observation is simple : in this position I have no self-love at all or no pride.

There are of course also always encounters in a few ways and forms, whether. But I especially highlighted the Hotwife meetings. The real ones, not the one arranged as I often see on the net. Not the ones that are done on the moment when 1 minute before we couldn't even imagine what was going to happen. The man is not aware and jumps at the opportunity to take advantage of a woman who offers himself to him for a moment. It's something very difficult to achieve, even more in our time. Above all, it is very difficult for Amantelilli made this kind of plan. She is a very shy and does not dare to take action. She doesn't dare flirt, lighting a man. it's really one of my biggest wishes that it be for 2021 and the years that followed, is that she dares more. She has everything to succeed but she lacks self-confidence on this side. Yet, to 40 years she's a beautiful woman. She has a dream body looking 10 years younger than his age, beautiful, very thin legs, a buttocks of madness, breasts still very proud for her age, an angel face virtually wrinkle-free, a huge sexual experience compared to other women. But despite all this she does not dare. I hope that it will evolve this year and that it will also realize the fantasies that it has been building for some time, have the strength and courage to finally move on to their realization.

I will not share here the table of points of 2021, Amantelilli doesn't want it because like a lot of things on the net, people are going to own it without even mentioning us, and are going to declare that they did this themselves see why not monetize it. This has happened to us in the past, it is now about fifteen years when I created a game of naughty goose that was found a few years later marketed without even mentioning us ! On the other hand, I had the joy and honour of seeing that’ Amantelilli had accepted this table 2021 unrestricted and enthusiastically. It's heartwar in time and it's a great relief for me ! This year begins under the best auspices.

This is what I can wish us for 2021, continue to pursue his dreams, cultivate one's fantasies and live one's sexuality while remaining safe !

For my part, I would like this year to take responsibility and fully accept the 2 facets of my personality ie both the man who loves to see his wife be completely destroyed by other men, that it is theirs without limit and that they can do with it what they want but also the man completely submissive, maso and cuckold, who no longer has any pride or self-love and who loves to be destroyed without limit by his wife and others. I will make articles in the year dedicated to these 2 but by clearly expressing my desires, my fantasies without blushes and without censorship, sensitive souls abstain.

For our couple, I wish us to get by as we did in 2020, continue to have fun together while waiting for better days for libertinism and especially continue to live with a woman as wonderful as my Princess, My queen, my Goddess who is my breath of life and for whom only her happiness counts.

Take care of yourself, live to the fullest and enjoy every moment !