Extreme femininity
As you may know I am the extreme femininity fetish. As everything is a value scale, I'll explain exactly what I mean.
Indeed for some women who are into jogging basketball throughout the week, they will find themselves women weekend with slim jeans and ballerinas, 2 keys makeup and perfume !
I'm actually very demanding on that side. Never I will have been able to live with this kind of woman.
Firstly the feminine for me does not conceive without heel shoes needles. I have horror of sneakers and other ballerinas 'Grandma '.. I can tolerate that a woman wears this exceptionally, but in any way the standard.
I already know that I have lost 75% of my female readers by writing ca !
After the goal, It is in the presence of my companion, I feel this exaggerated femininity rejaillir clearly. If the woman works in ballerina all day but that evening when I see her in high heels is perfect.
Then the attraction for me of stockings and tights are undeniable and this is part of femininity.
Attention I mean beautiful bottom and tights beautiful. For me there is nothing more than pushing black tights with a horrible integrated and striated of small mesh panties ! Not I am referring here to beautiful weavings, purposes, bright and not too fancy !
A woman may be women in a beautiful tailor trousers, but it will be never so magnified in a beautiful dress or a beautiful skirt.
Brief, to make it simple, I have thousand times more respect for a very feminine woman than for a woman 'banal '. (I just lost the last 25% of readers who had held out so far).
Indeed to be extremely female in our time it takes courage ! Between the big cons that go you mater and make you derogatory reflections, co-workers who will drool over your passage and feminists who tell you that you dress like that for the pleasure of men, It takes real courage to fully assume her femininity.
So I say bravo to real women, those who assume, those who dare, those who have included !
I also say thank you to Amantelilli to be so spontaneously without that I had never needed to ask anything. It's natural home, It is part of these women who are naturally feminine because of the allure, the holding, How to be, of those women who are never vulgar even in the most daring outfits.
Thanks to her I can live my the extreme femininity fetish daily !
Thanks my Aimee to be such that you are.
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Mr cuckoo.
You have not lost yet, I'm not female finally, not in the sense where you hear it !
You are right, you are demanding and you are very lucky to find lovers Lilli, which impresses me every day.
For my part, impossible to be female on the job, stockings have a lifespan of 2 h and the heels do not talk that I do not walk with (haha).
I find your article very interesting because, It is a point of view share by many men, in all cases, It makes me want to make efforts….
Good day to you both.
Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment !
It is true that be women requires work but it's so magical for men !
In any case glad to do not have lost you as reader 🙂
A beautiful topic l”extreme femininity” and a tribute to Amantelilli who knows being a woman, a woman accomplished, a real hotwife.
Without going into the debate masculinity/femininity (theory of gender & Co which is beyond me) some personal reflections (a long com…):
I am a man and I'm also demanding. With myself ; I am working on and for me, for my loved ones and my entourage. I'm trying to identify a class and a masculine charm (Ubersexuel ?) to be kind, elegant and virile without being macho. The temptation is too great to let go. I pay attention to my health, my attitude and my outfits. I will not yield to the song of the sirens of fashion and other fame trumpets, not for me : hairless torso/body (metrosexual ?), Beard (Hipster ?) and other dictates fashionable (AltBro, Swag Bro or Menswear Post Bro ? etc…). I know what I like and that fits me, I'm open to another style and trend : I want as far as possible remain integrated, simple and sincere with me and the other with a minimum of artifice without being superficial or false .
I share your point of view, I'm like you very sensitive to femininity and its codes (and Yes, I'm a guy, more importantly hetero). I love beautiful women, and AmanteLilli part : in heels, Silk stockings, skirt, corset and the range ; en “Lady dress” to simplify later. Like you, I can even also be fetish of this stereotypical woman that you describe very well in his “extreme femininity”. Of course, I am the first to regret not seeing enough hyper feminine women, sexy and desirable (Fortunately some charitable souls practice sharing candauliste…). Overall I was a “Let go” and a “extreme femininity” rare which is understandable :
– by our hectic lives (It takes time to be ready in “Lady dress” : be a Wonder Woman or even have an army of servants to be both woman, Amante, business woman, mother etc.…),
– by damage morphological continued use of 12cm heels (ask Sarah Jessica Parker or Victoria Beckham…),
– effects of ambient androgyny, can be side effect of “the men-women equality” (?) and also
– by the need to be quiet to not get noticed or even annoy (!! facing the other feminist dictates, fundamentalists of all stripes and machistes that revolted me !!).
I am therefore not fully agree with you, Mr Sirban, femininity. I raise this point to eventually review your message and regain some readers ;-). Femininity is not merely an outfit and let alone heels needles. A woman can remain extremely feminine in basketball pants, even in “Executive Working girl” with codes of masculinity, While a woman in “Lady dress” can be very “Manly” all depends on the attitude also (also some transvestite men do not apply to the letter codes of the “Lady dress”, and even sublime ?… ). Conversely, I should mention here : the “Lady dress” does not go to all women and better prevent or adapt to some (…).
A woman can remain a feminine woman nude or non nude, en “La Perla” or in “Small boat”, in her pajamas (same babygro) or her Nightie, in his jogging or its evening dress, in heels or in basketball (the sneakers at the feet and heels in the bag in the car/plane/metro before putting the heels in the office), etc… everything depends on the particular woman and the look that is worn on it and which refers him…
Walking most of 8 km daily on more or less terrain in being pressed, I can no longer wear high heels of 12 cm, all day, as I did before : my ankles are a little less stable, My camber and my knees to endolorissent. I sometimes opt for small sneakers or heels hired to relieve my body.
However, I don't feel ever woman in this getup, This disguise that isn't me : These flat shoes reason as an affront to my womanhood. I feel constraint by the force of things no longer the strength of age. I started to wear heels as soon as 14 years and since, It is a passion, a need. They are an extension of my person.
Returning home after my day at work, If I was flat, I amazed me immediately not to put my slippers, but to put my heels and again that I'm really. When we walk in the city several hours, I'm in heels. Barcelona, I walked 16km in heels needles and my feet suffered less than those of MrSirban, Shoes Sneakers, because I was not pressed and the terrain was urban.
The pretext that be female takes time is absolutely not true, It is a received idea. I put 25 30 minutes in any is for every day to be showered, masked, crackled and dressed. There is nothing insurmountable. It is a matter of habit, I do these same gestures since adolescence.
Thank you Charlie for this long comment and very interesting.
I see that we share the same ideas on many issues.
Nevertheless, about me, I can never find a woman “female” babygros or jogging, i.m.p.o.s.s.i.b.l.e
I agree to say that femininity is first and foremost a posture, a look ! But this kind of clothes is for me a “kills” femininity.
I'll give you an example to better understand.
When I see a man fuck male Amantelilli and make it cum like a crazy, I find it exciting, Good looking, exalting.
The same man, the same scene, who does the same thing but keeps his socks, it died for me, It breaks everything it is a “kills” the excitement.
Indeed even nude, a woman may be women by the look but there are clothes, shoes that destroy everything. And I should not be confused “sexy” and “femininity” We are agree.
Sorry but a woman, even with pace who wears a padded dressing gown, of charentaises, with curlers in their hair will be not female in my eyes…
My Aimee tender you are really the example of femininity in my eyes, you're all what I expect of a woman.
Many thanks for what you are ♥
Anyway long live women…. women's 🙂
Answer to you 2 Dear lover Lilli and Sirban *.. I expected and I really appreciate your individual responses in granted. I especially wanted to touch Miss lover Lilli in person passing, Yet by Sirban blog. Excellent, Thank you 2, you are perfect [You can be proud of you 😉 ].
Miss lover Lilli, both submissive and dominant, your heels agree to your extra femininity and go beyond a range *., a passion and an art of living : the heels are an extension of yourself, without them, you feel diminished in your femininity [and in size 😉 ]. Worry [If necessary… 😉 ] you are woman, you call sex strong and powerful and you know do I have no doubt from what I have seen and read on your blogs. You get out of the lot and this famous “beaufitude” ambient and General. If femininity and “beaufitude” are personal and subjective concepts, your couple “Sirban and Lili” is the opposite of that “José and Liliane” [ :-)… easy I admit].
I like you Lilli, preferably in heels well safe and this falls well, but not only. I will continue to browse your blog (not to mention that of Sirban which allowed me to discover you, you and your blog). I delight me to follow your practices of greedy greedy slut sex and male plurality in front of your husband in adoration for you.
And why not, to also follow a real visit, more physical and steamy, According to our desires and timetables… who knows lover Lilli, j'aimerai well taste your narrow con and make you feel my turgescent desire for you, enjoying on your small hard insolent boobs of pleasure and enjoyment with Sirban [yum yum].
Long live women.... women's and thanks to them, yours in particular Amante Lilli.
Good luck to you 2,
*PS 1 : touched for the babygro, The padded dressing gown, of charentaises, the rollers of the Mrs and Mr socks trying to kiss. Real “anti-aphrodisiaques”, “kills love”… we swim in full beauftitude, perfect for burying the excitement, the sensuality, and even the respect for self and others. On the other hand, I persist and sign, skin-tight black leggings of jogging well worn by Madam this remains personally very horny [pleasant but annoying when I run ;-)]. A priori lover Lilli seems not too worn on sports apart from practicing hours and hours of aerobatics in weightlessness and several with oblong shapes and totems to the punish (inspired by Alain Bashung, Madam dream).
**PS 2 : When a string right calf ? [ 😉 ]
A courageous notice 😘 !
And you do not lost me nor… UH but I'm not a woman !
Thank you,
Yes I know that some women want to have written it !
Both pis 🙂
Just like you Mrsirban !!!!!!
I share your views on femininity which tends to disappear nowadays.
Women until the end of the nail (hands and feet, well on….)
Good day to you both
Kisses
Thank you,
I'm glad to see that I'm not all alone !
You're right, unfortunately, It is lost nowadays.
Thanks for your comment.
I am of the same opinion that you appreciate femininity, the charm and sensuality that it emerges
in a woman.
From time to time I cross at work and they fascinate me.
Good continuation
Thank you, I am glad to see that you share my opinion.
Ultra feminine women are rare in our time !
I largely share this fascination with femininity. On the other hand I happened to find a very feminine woman in pants : After reflection, I understood that it was his way of moving, to keep that attracted my eyes. “It” is often surprised by my ability to perceive this femininity even at the edge of my field of vision : It says that I have a real beautiful women 😜 radar
Thanks for your comment !
I understand you, for my part I am also attracted to women women in the street, at the restaurant, in the shops, my eye is attracted by it !
But for me what premium they are even stiletto heel shoes !!!
An interesting look at which, Despite being less restrictive than you, It joined in many points, and that, in 2nd reading, reflected in my opinion especially a deep and sincere love of women (@Amante Lilli) and women.
However, a phrase still tickles me : “I have thousand times more respect for a very feminine woman than for a woman 'banal '. “. There, in 2nd reading yet, I related this to the concept of attraction and interest, but the notion of “respect” is here as subjective as subject to interpretation not ?
In any case, as you say, in our time it takes courage to women, wouldn't - what to be and remain “very” women and escape from the judgment of narrow minds… 😉
(Mr C&C 😉 )
Thanks for your comment.
But I confirm, This is not the attraction or interest, It is a deep respect for women who dare to assert their femininity in an era where social pressure forced a scrub which makes a woman, a woman !
Too easy for a woman to be “banal” and to comply with the dictates of the “normality”.
That's why I have more respect for the women who assume their femininity.
I quite agree a woman in pants basketball all day c is fro, a hand as you say so exceptional for practical dimensions.
It n there is nothing more beautiful as a woman in a dress and heels, the top from the bottom and more.
C is still more femin and pleasant to see that all these women who s dress up like men lol.
And I'll add qu it is same for the CDs below ladies…….When they wear this n sui is not always the case of lilli 😂
Thanks for the comment and glad to see that I am not alone in this case to love the extreme femininity 🙂
In total agreement with article.
Thank you !
Thank you for this ode to femininity and especially to the art of magnifying it for women.
Note I'm waiting for a woman to tell me how she sees masculinity in a man's outfit